Tag: single

  • This Is My Dad

    This Is My Dad

    For many children the family unit does not consist of a Mother and Father. The definition of “Family” has changed dramatically in recent years, and society has accepted these changes and welcomed loving relationships.

    This is my Dad shows the dilemma experienced by Leo when asked by his teacher to do a Show and Tell about his Father.

    His subsequent questions and searchings for answers brings him no solution to this problem. His Mother is busy on her computer, and his neighbour says he is too old to be his Father. So, Leo provides his own ideas of what a Father should be and cleverly solves his problem.

    This very topical, hard back picture book has simple and attractive pastel illustrations which clearly reflect the feelings of Leo and the other characters. The text is clear, a good size, and placed on a pale background for easy reading.

    Dimity Powell intended this story to celebrate “families of every shape and size.”

  • The Single Mother’s Social Club

    The Single Mother’s Social Club

    Inspiration and advice on embracing single parenthood

    Single-parent households are the fastest growing family group in Australia; of this group approximately 80% are women. The circumstances by which these women have become a single parent are very diverse but all will be able to relate to the situations described in Jacinta Tynan’s comprehensive, knowledgeable book ‘The Single Mother’s Social Club’.

    The author, herself a single parent of two young boys, after speaking to dozens of single mothers and experts has compiled what could be considered a handbook for the solo parent. Her book is divided into three parts; Destruction, Reset and Creation. Each part has several chapters expanding on its theme; these explore the issues related to the circumstances in which single mothers find themselves during their journey of solo parenting. The practical advice in each of these sections is supported by anecdotal stories from her many friends and authorities. The recommendations have been summarized in laymen’s terms at the end of each chapter in its section.

    Her spiritual practice is the thing which has sustained her greatly on her single mother journey, hence she has included a chapter in which she discusses spiritual concepts including meditation and trusting in a higher power.

    Readers who are experiencing isolation as a single mother will find this an insightful, validating and supportive work. By including a detailed index and a vast range of recommended resources, solo mothers are able to access further help.

  • Plastic Free

    Plastic Free

    Plastic Free July, like so many things was created in a moment of time and without any real thought as to the long term consequences of the simple little line said to a group of friends, ‘I’m going plastic free next month,’ which just happened to be July, back in 2011. With those simple words Rebecca Prince-Ruiz began what has become a world wide moment of people changing their lifestyle and helping to educated the world to the very tragic and real dangers of Plastic.

    During 2019, this cause was further helped buy the ABC series War On Waste in which Craig Reucassel created a very visual and confrontational look at just what plastic waste looks like, when only very small portions were gathered together then placed on public display.

    Over the years the Plastic Free July movement has expanded to become a global initiative that is gathering traction as more and more people are beginning to question how much plastic they use, some seen and much unseen and making a conscious decision to move to alternatives.

    Plastic Free tells the story of how the absolute enormity of a visit to a recycling plant in in Western Australia, the sheer volume of waste passing along the conveyor belts, the men in what seemed to be almost a continuous dance, shifting, extracting, unblocking the huge behemoth of machinery needed to process hundreds of tons urban waste, coupled with the almost deafening noise, was Prince-Ruiz ‘penny-dropping ’moment; the catalyst for going Plastic Free.

    Doted throughout the book are wonderful anecdotal stories of changes undertaken by communities, families and workplaces to reduce their waste footprint and make a difference to the world around them. Hot topics such as plastic straws, single use plastic bags and plastic disposable water bottles are addressed amongst other issues, as these are tangibles and very easy to understand.

    The subliminal aspect of microplastic, to name only one of the unseen killers which is now present in our waterways is not seen and is in many aspects, one the most dangerous of all, is discussed with solutions offered that take time to have a positive result, but need to be undertaken now.

    It has not taken just a few years to reach this crisis point, as is explained, as plastic has been around for more than 100 years, but was not a popular product until post World War II, when much changed; life was becoming faster, even then, with easy solutions being sought. Many will remember the introduction of the wonders of ‘plastic wrap’, which ultimately led to the issues now facing society on a global scale.

    If one little line in a conversation can set off a such a train of events, perhaps it is time to ask of yourself and others, what can you change to begin to make a difference. Already through Plastic Free July, much change has been undertaken, many fresh and new initiatives have been established and many, many more people are making informed choices when they shop, buy their morning coffee and pack their groceries into plastic free containers.

    Plastic Free and Plastic Free July reminds everyone that making a small difference can have a very positive impact on the environment, on your health and contribute to reducing the tons and tons of waste created by the destructive aspects of our throwaway society.

    Plastic Free is an inspiration, a reminder to us all to be conscious when purchasing, a guide as how to best begin in a way that will encourage plastic free as a lifestyle and also a challenge to make a difference to reducing your ‘waste-footprint’ on the environment.

     

  • How to be Single

    How to be Single

    Many little girls grow up with the modelling of a couple of adults in their own home. It is reasonable then to expect that, after having grown up, chosen a job, developed friendships and done a great amount of exploring and travelling, they look toward marriage and a family. But times have changed and, in New York and other parts of the world, there are not enough men to allow this to happen. The author decides to explore this idea, and does so in a humorous and authentic way.

     Liz tells a story about Julie and four of her friends. As we become acquainted with the women, we realise that each of them is an individual who has particular issues. All of them wish to meet a man and settle down and prepare for motherhood. Julie works for a Publishing house as a publicist, and is the one the women look to for help.

     Georgia is recently separated and has two young children. She is enraged that her husband has left them, and wants Julie to organise an evening for her to have a night on the town. Ruby suffers from depression, and volunteers at a dog shelter, where she makes sure the dogs being put down, get a last hug from her. Alice is a beautiful and intelligent woman who is a lawyer, and Serena joins a meditation centre.

     All the women are seeking to come to terms with their singleness. The chapters are called Rules, and the first chapter is “RULE 1, Make sure you have friends.”  The friends all go to some bars (with Georgia dancing on the bar waving her bra around), but in the end, it is the same as every other night out, when they come home together.

     As their lives progress, and they each feel a degree of helplessness, Julie decides to do some research. She asks her boss if she can write a book about single women all around the world. When she is given permission, she travels around, meeting women and talking to them. It is fascinating, and believable information that she gathers.

     The first women Julie speaks to are French. When she asks them what they do on a date, they reply “We don’t date.” They explain that they go out for drinks, but would NEVER call a man. Pride is taught to these women from an early age, and is taken for granted.

      The Italian women interviewed slap a lot. They were quite shocked when they discovered that Julie had never slapped a man! It is in Rome that Julie meets a French man who has an “open marriage.”  The only rule is, he and his wife may only be a way for two weeks, and then they must return home.

     As Julie travels around the world, sometimes with her friends and sometimes alone, she discovers more customs and fascinating insights into the life of single women.

     The humour and reality that the author brings to this book, will keep you reading and smiling. There is no manufactured ending to this work, but each of the characters moves forward, discovering the amazing importance of friendships, each becoming a little less precious about their own personal situation.

     If the film is true to the book, it should be a cracker, and I can’t wait to see it.