Tag: MeToo

  • Women, Men and the Whole Damn Thing

    Women, Men and the Whole Damn Thing

    ‘How to find the right words to frame this horror? How to understand why men do what they do to women? How to comprehend this malign force that seems to seep from the male psyche and infect us all? . . . That is the central hope, the appeal, embedded in this book: that other men might join me in this investigation and ruthless self-interrogation-and in doing so, become part of the change that is so urgently required.’ David Leser

    Women, Men and the Whole Damn Thing is an important book that everyone should read. In February of 2018 David wrote an article for “the Good Weekend ” about the Me Too movement. He was surprised when he was inundated with hundreds of letters of personal experiences from both men and women. The book “men women and the whole damn thing” was born from his article.

    Insightful, well researched and a masterpiece, David delves deeply into the male and female psyche, searching for answers into the age-old question, why are women dominated, abused, raped and denigrated by men, and why women should fight back. Quite confronting, the recounting of the brutality inflicted on women from time immemorial raises many questions of which to find an acceptable and honest answer is perhaps far larger than the modern world is prepared to answer.

    David leaves no stone unturned in his frank interviews with the famous and not so famous. He includes his own upbringing and sexual history in his effort to understand and come to a conclusion.

    Women, men and the whole damn thing is an honest, ethical and readable book; an eye-opening book and a book that makes you think and rethink. A unique book so appropriate for these times. I couldn’t put it down.

     

  • A Life Of Her Own

    A Life Of Her Own

    Following on from her last best seller Making Peace, Fiona McCallum tackles a what can be a very deeply personal but debilitating issue, that of bullying, looking at the power knowledge and understanding bring towards making change.

    A Life Of Her Own sees Alice Hamilton at a crossroad in her life. She has just completed a mature aged Arts degree, but can’t find work in her chosen field, that of history so is temping, taking whatever work is offered.

    Her partner of the past four years, David, is a man who is a workaholic, a driven man always looking for the next big business deal, the next step up the Corporate ladder, having little sympathy for Alice and her employment woes.

    She is offered a well-paying marketing position in a friend’s firm but declines, instead taking a position with a major real estate company; a position she feels she is well qualified to undertake, one she feels she will enjoy and excel at in her role of PA to Carmel Gold, agent extraordinaire.

    The unexpected death of an old friend sees her returning to her home town of Hope Springs, where she takes a long, hard and serious look at the family left behind, her ex-husband who has grown up considerably in the past few years, apologising for the stress he put her through during their marriage. She comes to the conclusion the best thing she ever did was leave!

    But things begin to go terribly wrong when Carmel Gold turns out to be something other than what she portrays, breaking Alice’s spirit, crushing her mentally and almost destroying her sanity. During all this David is often away, and Alice has once again to assess just what sort of relationship she has with a partner who is showing all the same traits of her mother and sister, that of narcissism.

    With the help and support of long-time friend Lauren and her Uni friends she eventually begins to understand what is happening to her and what she needs to be able to do to make changes, to once again have a life of her own.

    Inspiring, moving, with an all too real storyline, Fiona McCallum has created a wonderful story full of hope and courage which will resonate with many.