Tag: communication

  • To Be Honest…

    To Be Honest…

    How making truth happen builds better businesses, lives and societies

    To Be Honest is a book that needs to be read which is in so many ways is brutally honest, quirky, witty, wise and  philosophical, with fascinating research that ranges from Formula 1 racing to Cardiology and so much more, used to illustrate the point being made: that being honest has never been more important than it is in today’s world in order to help right the wrongs we have come to accept as normal and change  the ‘now’ for a far better future for generations to come.

    Constructed over many hours, days, weeks and months of research, observation and refection Dom Thurbon has placed honesty, or rather the lack of honesty firmly under the spotlight in his work To Be Honest, an honest look at the trajectory the world and it people have taken when it comes to being truthful.

    What or which concept is considered as honesty has been clearly illustrated and played out on the world stage over the past year with the re-election of Donald Trump to the President of the United States of America and the tragedy that not being even vaguely honest is now creating.

    But on a more relatable level, what of the everyday man or woman who is simply trying to get through another day, Management who are also trying to do the same thing but with more power to engineer the results they are trying to achieve, Businesses and Corporations wanting to achieve top ranking on a global scale; what do they consider as being honest, truthful?

    This begs the question, is there a difference between truth and honesty which upon digging deep, still remains a conundrum faced by everyone as to what exactly honesty is and how it should be used to begin to make change.

    Dom Thurbon considers the lack of honesty in the world today, engineered by AI, business, ego, desire and greed is something that can be changed with a little care and attention to how you go about living your life, or walking your talk.

    Why does truth matter so much, why do we lie, even in a small way as well as defining truth and its myriads of concepts is covered in the first section of the book which makes fascinating reading, offering much for self-reflection.

    Section two gets into the  real nitty gritty of ‘truth telling’ looking at how truth can be a fundamental instrument towards creating change, how to recognise truth when it is placed in front of you, no easy thing to do in this day and age, why skepticism is such a powerful tool when seeking the truth and how you can go about adapting to being more truthful, more honest in everyday life.

    His conclusion, or rather ‘no conclusion’, which is being very philosophical, in what is clearly not a philosophical book, so Thurbon declares, is an absolute Master Class in how we can all be so easily influenced into a way of thinking and speaking that even though we know is less than honest, we accept. He also provides a road map to finding the way to a better, far more honest way of living.

    To Be Honest is highly recommended.

  • Story and Structure: A Complete Guide

    Story and Structure: A Complete Guide

    Leon Conrad has spent a life time researching story, or stories, teaching, lecturing and tutoring in the art of story creation, analysis and restructure and also in pursuit of the answer to the time old question, where do stories come from.

    In the Preface Conrad explains much about the motivation behind his journey, why he has applied the mathematical principle created by Prof George Spencer Brown to literary (Story) analysis and how it makes the breakdown of any story ‘visually intuitive, easy to understand and extraordinarily powerful’.

    After you negotiate the first chapter which is somewhat daunting, as it lays out the six primary symbols used in breaking down the context of Story, you are carefully lead into the absorbing journey relating to the creation of a story, what causes a story to evolve and how, using the positive and negative environment to create a flow, a story arrives in all its captivating glory.

    Story and Structure: A Complete Guide is a pilgrimage through the world of words formed into cautionary tales, academic writing, enriching and thought provoking poetry and riddles, all of which tell a story in long or short form.

    Over 18 distinct story structures, several of which are familiar tales told in childhood, others are more complex such as West African dilemma tales and the intricately crafted Ki-Sho-Ten-Ketsu, Conrad applies the six symbols to clearly illustrate the ebb and flow, positive and negative of the storyline.

    As the chapters unfold it is very easy to become absorbed into what is a Masterclass in writing, which when understood and applied, has been proven to improve the writing style of all forms of story; storytelling and story creation.

    A very comprehensive end section, beginning with the very short Epilogue, leads into the four Appendix further discussing various area of construction and analysis which concludes this exemplary book.

    For anyone studying literature of any classification, considering writing a book or has written a book Story and Structure: A Complete Guide is a MUST have book of reference.